Core Principle I
Embrace the Flame
You cannot control the burner of fate, only how you respond to it.
When life turns up the heat, do not flee the kitchen. Stand firm,
adjust your temperature settings, and remember: even the greatest
meals require discomfort. Also, maybe a potholder.
Core Principle II
The Virtue of Preheating
Preparation is everything. The hasty chef who throws ingredients into
a cold pan achieves only disappointment. So too must you preheat your
mind before facing the day's challenges. Rushing leads to
sticking, both in pans and meetings.
Core Principle III
All Things in Their Season(ing)
Add salt at the right moment, not before, not after. Timing matters.
Patience is not weakness—it is knowing when something needs five more
minutes, even when you're hungry now and eyeing the chips.
Core Principle IV
Accept What Cannot Be Unburnt
The toast is blackened. The soup has boiled over. Lamenting changes
nothing. Scrape what can be salvaged, learn, and move forward.
Dwelling on culinary disaster only ensures the next course also burns.